Monday, April 12, 2021

Wanderer

Wandering aimlessly searching for where to go
When you feel you reached your destination
You have to stop the search there
If you dont stop or you are not welcome there
You will always be a wandering soul
Without finding the inner peace. 

Oasis

When you wander in a desert searching for the elixir
From the distance you will find an oasis waiting for you
An oasis which is going to satiate all your thirst
An oasis which will welcome you with all its heart
An oasis you finally call it as your home
With all your energy you go towards that 
believing you finally reached your destiny. 
When you are near to it, and if it is yours
You will exhilirate and immerse yourself there
Finally resting at the place you belong. 
But if it is just a mirage
You will lose all your energy to travel further
You just let the desert subsume you 
and become part of the desert you want to escape

Friday, January 1, 2021

Dignity in dying


We all strive to lead a dignified life
Dignity plays a major role in our day to day life
Dignity in earning
Dignity in relationships
Dignity in growing old

When we grow old
When our health doesn't cooperate
When we require others for basic bodily needs
When we lost all hope for an independent life
When we are at the mercy of others
The dignity is stripped away layer by layer
And 
We are left naked, both body and soul. 

So where is dignity in dying? 
Is it embracing death contently
That I lived mine and you live yours. 
Is this the way of showing dignity to the living
that the end is not fearful. 


Caregivers

We ensure that we emphasize
The dignity while living.
But what about
Dignity in dying?

Why we are reluctant to 
Send our dear ones in a dignified way
Why we just prolong their life? 
Which is Invasive and painful to them

Why We are unable to let them go? 

Are we unable to cut the emotional bonding
Or
Are we emotionally stable by holding on to them
Or 
Our life's meaning is dependent on them
Or 
Are we conditioned to feel guilty for letting them go

Why can't we make their last journey
Painless, dignified, emotinally less draining and soul enriching to them as well us. 
Dignity in dying is as important as dignity in living